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Remembering Loved Ones: Daily Remembrance Practices

In a unique survey conducted by LIVENT, a Tokyo-based company specializing in custom funerals called Flower Funeral®, the findings reveal profound insights into how individuals remember their departed loved ones in their everyday lives. With the autumn equinox approaching, a survey titled "Flower and Life Memory Survey" was the focal point of this research. A total of 3,098 participants across Japan shared their thoughts, leading to significant findings.

Key Findings of the Survey

1. Triggers for Memories: The results indicate that 44% of respondents remember the deceased during specific rituals like Obon, Higan, or memorial days. Meanwhile, 42.5% of participants are triggered by culinary experiences, showing only a slight 1.5-point difference between the two categories, highlighting how commonplace objects can evoke memories of those who have passed.

2. Beyond Grave Visits: Notably, 83.9% of respondents reported employing methods other than visiting gravesites to remember their loved ones. The most common practice, cited by 48%, includes 'talking to them in their hearts.' Other actions such as honoring their presence at home or enjoying their favorite foods also ranked high, marking a clear intention to maintain a connection on a personal level.

3. Emotional Responses: When pondering memories of the deceased, 52.4% of participants expressed feelings of nostalgia, while 42.5% felt a sense of gratitude. Additionally, 41% mentioned a longing to be reunited, illustrating that memories of loved ones are tied to complex emotional experiences rather than mere sadness. This suggests that reflections on the past can foster positive feelings about those we have lost.

Everyday Remembrance through Food and Photos

Stories from families using the Flower Funeral® services further illuminate these findings. For instance:

• - A Family Recipe: One daughter reminisced how her mother, a culinary enthusiast, frequently prepared a special dish, "Tai Salad." Following her passing, this beloved recipe was transferred to her daughter and granddaughter, becoming an integral family tradition that keeps her memory alive.

• - Cherished Photos: Another family shared their experience of sifting through nearly 200 photographs from the funeral. Contrary to the common notion of funerals as somber occasions, they found that revisiting these cheerful moments allowed them to celebrate their mother's life positively and vibrantly.

LIVENT's Approach to Custom Funerals

At LIVENT, the guiding principle behind the Flower Funeral® service is reminiscent of the adage that every individual has a distinct story worth celebrating. During the funeral planning process, families are encouraged to share the essence of their loved ones. This includes discussing favorite flowers, hobbies, cherished memories, and significant locations, all of which are woven into the service, providing a personal touch.

LIVENT highlights that remembrance shouldn't be confined to designated dates or locations. Engaging in daily reflections—whether through preparation of a beloved dish or the sharing of memories with friends—serves as an ongoing tribute to those who shaped our lives.

Conclusion

The insights gained from LIVENT's