Over 75% of Divorcees in Japan Call for More Support on Marriage Continuation

Understanding Divorce in Japan: Insights from a Recent Survey

In a groundbreaking survey conducted by CRAYONZ, over 75% of individuals who have experienced divorce expressed concerns about the lack of resources available to help couples sustain their marriages in Japan. This research, targeting men and women aged 20 to 50, highlights the disconnect between aspirations and reality in marital relationships, emphasizing the urgent need for educational opportunities that focus not just on getting married, but on how to maintain a healthy and lasting relationship.

Background of the Study

As marriage rates in Japan show little increase, the dialogue surrounding the expectations and challenges within marriage becomes increasingly important. Many couples face disillusionment when confronted with the stark realities of married life, leading to a growing number of divorce cases. CRAYONZ aimed to shed light on the sentiments of those who have gone through this process, examining their readiness before marriage and the factors that influenced their eventual decisions to part ways.

Key Findings from the Survey

1. Root Causes of Divorce: The study revealed that the predominant reasons for divorce among respondents were financial issues and differences in values, accounting for 27.3% and 27.0% respectively. Personal relationships and incompatibilities came in third place at 11.4%.

2. Lack of Communication: A staggering 80% of divorcees admitted that they had not discussed negative future risks with their partners prior to marrying. This lack of open dialogue could contribute significantly to the breakdown of relationships.

3. Confidence in Marriage: One in three participants revealed they did not have any concrete basis for their confidence in marriage at the time of tying the knot. Many relied on emotional factors such as love or shared interests.

4. Preventative Thoughts: When reflecting on their past, over one-third mentioned that they would have considered not getting married at all to avoid divorce. However, a significant portion also recognized the importance of having a strong mindset to overcome challenges together.

5. Economic Stability and Support: The leading factor identified for the breakdown of marriages was the lack of financial stability, followed closely by insufficient kindness and consideration from partners. Financial pressures can exacerbate issues within relationships, creating an environment ripe for conflict.

6. Need for Supportive Resources: Most respondents (over 75%) agreed that compared to wedding planning services, there is a dire lack of resources available to help couples prepare for the realities of married life.

Conclusion

The findings of this survey indicate a clear need for increased educational resources geared towards helping couples navigate the complexities of marriage. While many divorcees wish they had engaged in more meaningful discussions about potential risks before marriage, there remains a demand for programs that foster resilience in relationships.

CRAYONZ's initiative, titled 'Kakugo-Kon', seeks to address these needs by redefining marriage as not just an event but a journey that couples must prepare for. The immersive retreat program serves as a strong foundation for couples to deepen their connection while facing the challenges ahead together. This approach emphasizes accountability and understanding in relationships, ultimately enabling partners to build a solid commitment to each other.

For more information on Kakugo-Kon and its mission to support couples in their marital journey, visit the official website: Kakugo-Kon.