Embracing Identity: A Heartwarming Story of Dementia and Love

In the ever-evolving landscape of literature addressing societal issues, Oizumi Shoten is set to release a remarkable picture book titled "Its Individuality Doesn't Disappear" by Ayako Onzo, featuring illustrations by Tarafu Ohtani, on September 3, 2025. This poignant work sheds light on the experience of dementia, particularly as Japan faces a growing number of affected individuals, projected to reach approximately 7 million by 2025, according to the Ministry of Health, Labour and Welfare.

The story is based on the true experiences of Ayako Onzo, a neuroscientist, and her mother, who has been diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. Through an emotionally charged narrative, the book emphasizes that despite the ravages of dementia, the essence and individuality of the affected person remain intact.

A Journey Through Dementia

The narrative captures the fear and anxiety experienced by those watching their loved ones gradually lose abilities they once took for granted. For instance, a mother who once loved cooking becomes unable to remember the simplest recipes. She struggles with her sense of direction on familiar streets and even finds herself wearing her daughter's clothing, profoundly lost in the effects of her condition. These moments lead to feelings of frustration and a desire for isolation, as the mother grapples with her changed reality. Yet, amidst the confusion, fleeting memories spark joy – a favorite flower, a beloved song, or the love for her daughter never fades.

The Heartfelt Dialogue

The structure of the book alternates between the perspectives of the mother and daughter, creating an engaging dialogue. The daughter comforts her mother with reassurances, saying, “It's okay, Mom” while recounting the scientific workings of the brain, specifically the hippocampus, the center for memory, to illustrate how emotions, though sometimes dormant, continue to resonate. The warmth of this exchange serves not only to nurture familial love but also to create a deeper understanding of the emotional landscape of individuals suffering from dementia.

This story resonates universally, transcending generations. It serves as a gentle reminder of the importance of emotional connections, regardless of cognitive decline. The book encourages readers to embrace those living with dementia, reminding us that they still possess their individuality and feelings.

Insight from a Neuroscientist

At the end of the book, a special section titled “Dementia Through the Eyes of a Neuroscientist” offers over ten pages of insights. Here, Onzo effectively explains the operations of the brain, the interconnectedness of memory and emotions, and how the essence of a person is preserved in the midst of dementia. This section serves as an educational resource, making complex scientific information accessible to all.

Launch and Event

To celebrate the release, a special event is planned featuring a reading of the book, a lecture, and a signing session. Ayako Onzo will discuss her thoughts on dementia and the concept of “individuality” on September 15, 2025, at the Seikatsu Nipponbashi FORUM, with options for online participation via Zoom. Interested readers can register through the event webpage.

About the Author

Ayako Onzo is a noted neuroscientist specializing in self-awareness and emotions. She holds a Ph.D. from the Tokyo Institute of Technology and is currently a researcher at the University of Tokyo. Onzo is also the author of several books about dementia, one of which centers on her mother’s experiences. Her contributions to the understanding of psychological health and neurobiology are significant.

Tarafu Ohtani, the book's illustrator, is known for her vibrant animation work, collaborating with various artists and contributing to notable projects. Her art brings to life the emotional essence of the narrative, ensuring that readers connect not only with the words but also with the visual storytelling.

This picture book, "Its Individuality Doesn't Disappear, is not just a story about dementia – it is a resounding affirmation of love, individuality, and the human spirit that remains undiminished, providing hope for families navigating this challenging journey.

Stay tuned for the upcoming release, and consider joining the discussion at the launch event!