Creating Lasting Happiness in Marriage: Insights on Modern Partner Selection

The landscape of marriage in Japan is undergoing significant changes, with statistics reflecting both rising marriage rates and record-low birth rates. This evolving scenario calls into question not only whether to marry but also how to build enduring happiness with the right partner.

In light of these changes, NARESOME, a leading marriage counseling organization, is celebrating the release of its new book, ‘True Happiness That Lasts a Lifetime: Logical Love in Marriage,’ with a special event on June 26, 2026, at Roppongi Tsutaya Bookstore.

Understanding Modern Marital Challenges

The newly released book is aimed at addressing the common dilemmas faced by individuals in contemporary dating scenarios. With an increase in options, many find themselves grappling with questions like, “Is there someone better out there?” “Is love enough to make a lifelong commitment?” and “Why can’t I decide even when the conditions seem right?” These are typical uncertainties many grapple with as they navigate the complexities of finding a life partner.

NARESOME’s approach of ‘Logical Love’ emphasizes the importance of balancing emotional fulfillment with rational decision-making when choosing a partner. They advocate for individuals to feel a genuine connection while also being able to make informed choices that support long-term happiness.

The Event: Insights into Lasting Relationships

The upcoming event will dive into insights from the book, focusing on how to successfully blend affection with a rational appreciation of shared life goals. This is not just about choosing a partner based on emotions or compatibility alone; it’s about fostering a deep understanding of what long-term happiness in marriage entails.

Speakers at the event include Chihiro Katsukura, the esteemed director of NARESOME, who brings a wealth of experience guiding clients through the minefield of marital decisions. With a remarkable success rate of 94.3% within the organization during the period of March 2025 to April 2026, Katsukura’s practical insights will shed light on the intricacies of modern match-making.

Alongside him, Keita Yamazaki, a distinguished relationship psychologist with over 1,000 counseling sessions under his belt, will share his thoughts on emotional dynamics and relationship-building strategies. Their combined expertise aims to help attendees understand the critical balance between the fleeting excitement of new romance and the commitment required for a lifelong partnership.

Highlights of the Discussion

During the event, Katsukura will discuss the prevalent misconceptions about partner selection—especially the tendency to focus solely on ‘likability’ or merely the logical compatibility of mutual conditions. It is crucial, he emphasizes, to ensure that both emotional and rational facets coexist in one’s decision-making process regarding relationships.
Additionally, Yamazaki will provide insights into the psychological aspects of love and partnership, reflecting on his experiences from the popular relationship program ‘Love Hospital,’ where contemporary views on love and marriage are explored in depth.

This event aims to empower individuals with the tools and insights necessary for making conscious and fulfilling choices in their quest for lasting relationships.

Event Details

- Event Title: NARESOME Release Event – ‘Creating a Lasting Marriage: Logical Love in Partner Selection’
- Date: June 26, 2026
- Time: 6:00 PM to 7:30 PM (Check-in begins at 5:30 PM)
- Location: Roppongi Tsutaya Bookstore, Tokyo
- Capacity: 50 attendees (Pre-registration required, draw based)
- Participation Fee: 1,540 yen (including the book)

The significance of this session extends beyond mere discussions; it aims to ignite thoughts that may help individuals find their true match while ensuring they can reflect later and say, ‘I made a choice I’m truly happy with.’

The NARESOME Vision

NARESOME not only aspires to assist couples until their marriage but has dedicated objectives to support newlyweds in their relationship journey beyond mere wedding bells. Their goal of creating ‘50 years of sustained happiness’ reflects their commitment to improving quality of life through successful relationship management.

In summary, the upcoming event promises to cultivate a space for innovative thoughts on love and partnerships, essential in the contemporary context of relationships.